Another Interesting Weekend

Lg did a good thing this past Saturday. She got her brothers to watch the boy for the night. She had to go somewhere with her Mom for the day, but when she got home at 8pm, it was just me and her. I had told her the previous day that she would receive her ten strokes, which were now over two weeks overdo, on Saturday night. She responded by getting our son out of the house for it.

And then I surprised her. When she got home on Saturday and we were alone, I announced that I would NOT be giving her her do this evening. To my great surprise (and pleasure, I might ad), the look on her face was one of great disappointment. I have to say that this is the very first time since we have started this adventure that I have seen this look unless it was because she WAS to receive a punishment.

The reason I decided to postpone her strokes had to do with a few things I had a chance to really think about while lg had been with her Mom. You see, we are nowhere near a 24/7 D/s relationship yet. Our ‘sessions’ have been determined mainly by opportunity. This has led to a lot of confusion and even hard feelings at times. So I spent the day on Saturday coming up with a few rules/guidelines for when our sessions would take place and what they would consist of. They are as follows:

Overall

1. During our sessions you will not be addressed by your given name, but by little girl or lg. You will do everything possible to please and serve me. I think this separation of yourself between ‘sessions’ and ‘real life’ will help you a lot.

2. One hour on Tuesday and Thursday will be sessions. I may use you in any way I see fit, including but not limited to sex, writing in your journal or for your blog or just to allow you to escape your ‘real life’ responsibilities.

3. One hour on Monday, Wednesday and Friday is to be ‘relaxation sessions’. They are for you. You may do as you wish during these sessions, as long as they help you relieve stress. This might be a good time for your exercises. You are to announce these sessions to me.

4. If any of these weekday sessions are skipped, excluding reasons of circumstance, you will receive two strokes during the weekend session. There will be at least one session every weekend, duration to be determined (but no less than one hour). If a weekend session is skipped for ANY reason, you will receive ten strokes in the next session.

Basic Rules During Sessions for lg

1. You are not to look me in the eyes unless I initiate it.

2. You are not to speak unless I ask you to. If speaking is absolutely necessary, you must ask permission before continuing.

3. Failure with the previous two rules will result in two strokes.

4. Always remember, during sessions you are NOT a wife or mother, you are a slave; MY slave. You are little girl and the ONLY thing you need to be thinking about is how you can please me.

5. You are to remain demure and respectful at all times. Negative reactions to requests will result in strokes, number to be determined. You are to try to initiate actions that you know please me without always having to be asked to.

6. You are to trust me always and refuse me nothing.

Basic Rules During Sessions for Me

1. I will never, for now, do more than one ‘new’ thing during a given session.

2. I will ALWAYS pay the closest attention to how and what you are feeling.

3. I will never get too ‘buzzed’ to follow rules one and two.

These are the basic rules we will follow for now, after lg and I had spent late into the night discussing/negotiating them. It was one of the most fun and productive evenings we have spent in a long time. There was no ‘session’ that night and we talked until dawn for the first time in probably 15 years. For my part, I rediscovered how intelligent she is (something I should NEVER forget) and how extremely sexy her intelligence is. The idea that subs are stupid girls with no personality couldn’t be further from the truth. Not that stupid girls with no personality don’t exist, just that I doubt they have the capacity to even approach a subject such as this.


C.