This Past Weekend
This weekend was a good one for us, despite the fact that our son decided NOT to spend the night away on Saturday. **sigh** Oh, well. We still got to play a little.
Friday Night: lg and I agreed that even though the boy wasn’t going anywhere this weekend, we would still be in our D/s mode. We started with shaving off all of lg’s pubic hair. She has a beautiful pussy, with large, meaty outer lips and delicate, bright pink inner lips. I then inserted a 2” diameter ball inside her pussy, which she left in while she cleaned up and made dinner; about two hours. After dinner, we both caught a slight buzz and retired to the bedroom for a two hour session of hot, loving, ‘normal’ sex.
Saturday: Saturday was to be our day-long ‘session’. I awoke to breakfast in bed. After I finished eating I positioned lg on her knees on the bed, her ass (plump and round and smooth) presented beautifully. I watched TV for a while, stroking her ass and pussy softly. I then flogged her (with my homemade flogger, thank you very much! 'D/s on a Budget'….coming soon) back and ass for about an hour. The flogging was not very severe; I had already decided that this weekend would be somewhat light, due to lg’s obvious fears and insecurities on this issue in the last week or so. I didn’t, of course, tell lg this. After the flogging, I fucked her very hard and unsympathetically. She came hard, which I allowed. For about an hour or so, I let her nap lightly, her face pressed to my chest, while I watched TV with one eye and the fading red marks on her back and butt with the other. After I made us some lunch (homemade roast beef subs), it was time for a mini-training session.
lg has always been an enthusiastic lover, always willing to try new things. She has, however, been reluctant to consistently engage in certain sexual acts and has trouble with a few. She has always had a stigma against things like cum-swallowing, anal sex and anything having to do with pee. She also, while again, very enthusiastic, has trouble with sucking cock. This is what we worked on for quite a while on Saturday.
Something that lg has wanted to do for a very long time now is have a threesome with another male. We have had several experiences with other women, and a once with another couple, but never with just another man. We have discussed this in the past but on Saturday I told her of a plan I had for this. I told her that she could have another man when she could satisfy him with ALL of her holes with NO resistance. This does two things. First, it gives lg motivation for practicing/perfecting her sexual techniques, especially deep throating and anal sex, both of which she has substantial problems with. Second, I know this will take time which will give me more time to get over my own jealousies and insecurities.
lg spent almost three hours sucking my cock on Saturday (our son spent most of the day at a friends house next door). I was extremely proud and pleased with her. At one point, she went a half hour without ever taking my cock out of her mouth. lg has a very bad gag reflex, and she came real close to throwing up a bunch of times. In the past, this would almost always affect her negatively, sometimes stopping the sexual encounter completely. On Saturday, though, when she gagged, there was barely a hesitation before she plunged my cock back down her throat. By the time I had her stop, she was sucking in 2/3 of my cock on each stroke without choking. I know that she will get to the point where she can take all of my eight inches (it really is, I swear) all the way in without a problem. Patience and practice. I also didn’t cum in her mouth. One thing at a time.
We hung out and I watched movies for the rest of the day, while lg read ‘The Story of O’ (which she finished in one day) next to me. I still exerted my will on her, i.e. giving her a slap now and then, making her be the one to get something from the kitchen, her having to ask to go to the bathroom, etc. But, for the most part, we just enjoyed being with each other. After the boy was home and holed up in his room talking to his girlfriend on the phone, we fell asleep in each others arms, the TV still on.
Sunday: Sunday was a different story all together. We spend our Sundays at lg’s folks house for NASCAR (puke!) and Sunday dinner, which lg and her mother prepare every week. lg and I were to keep up the D/s session throughout the day, keeping in mind that we couldn’t really do anything major. She said that she mainly just wanted me to be with her. As it turned out, I had to ride with one of lg’s brothers to go pick up another brother in Daytona, usually an hour ride one way. Except…this was the last weekend of BIKE WEEK in Daytona! So we ended up sitting in traffic for almost four hours. While I didn’t mind this too bad (plenty of ‘hot scenery’ to look at during Bike Week), it didn’t please lg at all. Finally, after getting back, I did what I usually do on Sundays, hung out with our son and lg’s brothers playing video games. After dinner, which we all eat together, the boys wanted me to stay and watch the movie ‘Saw’ with them. Now, I have done this before, and have had arguments in the past with lg over the fact that I don’t go out to bars (or practically anyplace else) without her. And when I do, it is almost always with her brothers (23 & 19 years old) at her mother’s house. Can’t get much safer than that! lg has, in the past, realized this and I thought that it was a non-issue now. I was wrong, again. When lg found out that I wanted to stay, first she fell into her old pattern of getting huffy and pouty about it, all the while saying that it was ok. Then, just when I was about to drive her and the boy home, she burst into tears. While it kinda made me angry, I agreed to come home with them. She continued to say it was ok that I stay, even through her sobs. I went home.
When we got home, lg and I had a very long discussion about her reaction. She told me that it was mostly due to the fact that she really needed to be with me and that she was actually mad at her self for needing me so much. What I failed to realize was that even though our weekend ‘session’ had not been very physically taxing on lg, it WAS on an emotional level. I hadn’t even officially ended the session. I learned that I have to pay VERY close attention to every aspect of a session and lg learned that she needs to tell me exactly what she is feeling, up front.
C.
NOTE: I just read through this post and don’t want to give the impression that lg is some kind of basket case. She is not. Her moodiness is perfectly understandable, considering the feelings that she is working through. There are also everyday issues (finances, the boy, etc.) that we are dealing with. We are at one of those stages in life where everything is changing so fast that it is almost impossible to keep up.
Friday Night: lg and I agreed that even though the boy wasn’t going anywhere this weekend, we would still be in our D/s mode. We started with shaving off all of lg’s pubic hair. She has a beautiful pussy, with large, meaty outer lips and delicate, bright pink inner lips. I then inserted a 2” diameter ball inside her pussy, which she left in while she cleaned up and made dinner; about two hours. After dinner, we both caught a slight buzz and retired to the bedroom for a two hour session of hot, loving, ‘normal’ sex.
Saturday: Saturday was to be our day-long ‘session’. I awoke to breakfast in bed. After I finished eating I positioned lg on her knees on the bed, her ass (plump and round and smooth) presented beautifully. I watched TV for a while, stroking her ass and pussy softly. I then flogged her (with my homemade flogger, thank you very much! 'D/s on a Budget'….coming soon) back and ass for about an hour. The flogging was not very severe; I had already decided that this weekend would be somewhat light, due to lg’s obvious fears and insecurities on this issue in the last week or so. I didn’t, of course, tell lg this. After the flogging, I fucked her very hard and unsympathetically. She came hard, which I allowed. For about an hour or so, I let her nap lightly, her face pressed to my chest, while I watched TV with one eye and the fading red marks on her back and butt with the other. After I made us some lunch (homemade roast beef subs), it was time for a mini-training session.
lg has always been an enthusiastic lover, always willing to try new things. She has, however, been reluctant to consistently engage in certain sexual acts and has trouble with a few. She has always had a stigma against things like cum-swallowing, anal sex and anything having to do with pee. She also, while again, very enthusiastic, has trouble with sucking cock. This is what we worked on for quite a while on Saturday.
Something that lg has wanted to do for a very long time now is have a threesome with another male. We have had several experiences with other women, and a once with another couple, but never with just another man. We have discussed this in the past but on Saturday I told her of a plan I had for this. I told her that she could have another man when she could satisfy him with ALL of her holes with NO resistance. This does two things. First, it gives lg motivation for practicing/perfecting her sexual techniques, especially deep throating and anal sex, both of which she has substantial problems with. Second, I know this will take time which will give me more time to get over my own jealousies and insecurities.
lg spent almost three hours sucking my cock on Saturday (our son spent most of the day at a friends house next door). I was extremely proud and pleased with her. At one point, she went a half hour without ever taking my cock out of her mouth. lg has a very bad gag reflex, and she came real close to throwing up a bunch of times. In the past, this would almost always affect her negatively, sometimes stopping the sexual encounter completely. On Saturday, though, when she gagged, there was barely a hesitation before she plunged my cock back down her throat. By the time I had her stop, she was sucking in 2/3 of my cock on each stroke without choking. I know that she will get to the point where she can take all of my eight inches (it really is, I swear) all the way in without a problem. Patience and practice. I also didn’t cum in her mouth. One thing at a time.
We hung out and I watched movies for the rest of the day, while lg read ‘The Story of O’ (which she finished in one day) next to me. I still exerted my will on her, i.e. giving her a slap now and then, making her be the one to get something from the kitchen, her having to ask to go to the bathroom, etc. But, for the most part, we just enjoyed being with each other. After the boy was home and holed up in his room talking to his girlfriend on the phone, we fell asleep in each others arms, the TV still on.
Sunday: Sunday was a different story all together. We spend our Sundays at lg’s folks house for NASCAR (puke!) and Sunday dinner, which lg and her mother prepare every week. lg and I were to keep up the D/s session throughout the day, keeping in mind that we couldn’t really do anything major. She said that she mainly just wanted me to be with her. As it turned out, I had to ride with one of lg’s brothers to go pick up another brother in Daytona, usually an hour ride one way. Except…this was the last weekend of BIKE WEEK in Daytona! So we ended up sitting in traffic for almost four hours. While I didn’t mind this too bad (plenty of ‘hot scenery’ to look at during Bike Week), it didn’t please lg at all. Finally, after getting back, I did what I usually do on Sundays, hung out with our son and lg’s brothers playing video games. After dinner, which we all eat together, the boys wanted me to stay and watch the movie ‘Saw’ with them. Now, I have done this before, and have had arguments in the past with lg over the fact that I don’t go out to bars (or practically anyplace else) without her. And when I do, it is almost always with her brothers (23 & 19 years old) at her mother’s house. Can’t get much safer than that! lg has, in the past, realized this and I thought that it was a non-issue now. I was wrong, again. When lg found out that I wanted to stay, first she fell into her old pattern of getting huffy and pouty about it, all the while saying that it was ok. Then, just when I was about to drive her and the boy home, she burst into tears. While it kinda made me angry, I agreed to come home with them. She continued to say it was ok that I stay, even through her sobs. I went home.
When we got home, lg and I had a very long discussion about her reaction. She told me that it was mostly due to the fact that she really needed to be with me and that she was actually mad at her self for needing me so much. What I failed to realize was that even though our weekend ‘session’ had not been very physically taxing on lg, it WAS on an emotional level. I hadn’t even officially ended the session. I learned that I have to pay VERY close attention to every aspect of a session and lg learned that she needs to tell me exactly what she is feeling, up front.
C.
NOTE: I just read through this post and don’t want to give the impression that lg is some kind of basket case. She is not. Her moodiness is perfectly understandable, considering the feelings that she is working through. There are also everyday issues (finances, the boy, etc.) that we are dealing with. We are at one of those stages in life where everything is changing so fast that it is almost impossible to keep up.
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