We’ve Made It Around The Bend…
The bills are finally getting caught up and all of the boy’s trips this summer are finalized. We are still having to watch our money very closely, but we are definitely over the hump. The boy’s first trip is to Boston for a week, so that leaves lg and I alone from June 9 to June 15.
So, this is what I am proposing for our first week alone in several years.
Thursday, June 9th – The boy’s plane for Boston leaves in the morning, so we will have to take the day off from work. Our boss gave me three days and nights in our town’s best 5-star hotel and dinner at a 5-star restaurant as a bonus a few months back, so lg and I will go to dinner and use one of the nights in the hotel. This will be a celebration of two things. First, a reward to lg for her creative financing over the last several months which is allowing our son to be a globetrotter for the summer (his destinations include D.C., Boston, L.A., Virginia and twelve cities in Australia, including a night with an Aborigines tribe). Second, this will be a reward to ourselves for doing all the hard things we have done for each other to stay together for so long. We will also use the evening to discuss and reassert our desires when it comes to the new D/s lifestyle we are exploring.
Friday, Jun 10th – Assuming that our discussions of the previous night go well, we will go home after work and I will officially collar lg for the weekend. Lg has never been collared, and I think it will help with our distinction between our ‘real’ lives and our D/s lives. Neither of us has ever been one for ceremony, but I think a short ritual with both of us having a portion of time to say what we feel is important. We will also come up with our ‘safe word’. Also, lg must pick from several choices I give her for her first collar by this day. Here are her choices:
Lock & Chain Dress Collar Fifth one from the top...
Note: I’d be curious to know what any subs that read this (if any) or anyone else would choose. Leave a comment with your choice.
Sunday, June 12th - We will have another discussion on Sunday evening to see what we both liked, disliked, etc. We will then decide where to go from there.
Until then, we will continue our lives the way we have been when it comes to D/s. I have not been particularly demanding and lg has not been particularly submissive, but I realize it has given us both time to examine what we really want. This gives us seventeen more days to get our focus back on us.
I look forward to this week in June very much. I will miss and worry about the boy immensely, but lg and I need this time alone sooooo badly!
Keep Living.
C.
posted by Blogger at 12:27 PM
4 Comments:
The decision is ultimately lg's, but my vote is for Choice 8!
: )
C.
I hesitate to provide direction as it is such an intimate item, and purely up to personal choice. When looking at the options you provided I am struck by the following insights; latex can get tight and uncomfortable fairly quickly, too much metal on a collar distracts me from what I should be focusing on, and I am happy with a width that is obvious while I wear the collar, but not so wide that it makes it hard for me to feel natural or move my neck. Ultimately, YOU, as the Dom, should choose what pleases YOU, and meets your needs. Pick something that represents what your expectations are when it is in use. My husband chose basic black leather, one ring for practical purposes, and most definately a lock because I am willful. I was also grateful that no studs were in direct contact with my skin. What ever you pick the collar MUST mean what it implies, and that is your dominance and her submission. Be very careful to make sure this is the climate when she is wearing 'your collar'. Also make sure she understands what your expectations are when she is wearing it.
Sorry, can't help with the choice... I like them all :)
I like 8 too....but nuala brings up some great points...
whatever the choice...enjoy and may it be a wonderful, growing time for you :)
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