Update
Well, the boy is somewhere over the Pacific ocean as I write this. He lands in Sydney at 7:20am Sydney time. Of course, the time thing has got me all turned around. He will actually arrive their on the 12th, but that’s today to us…whatever…lol
He was SOOO excited. Our son is usually very reserved and, well…’Cool’. On the way to and at the airport, he was beside himself and couldn’t stop talking. We couldn’t go to the gate with him so we watched him go through security through glass. I expected him to be his usual cool self and not really pay attention to us, but I was very pleasantly surprised. He waved at us nearly the whole time, aggravating the security workers. The smile on his face never left once and even when he got through security and could barely see us from the other side, he still was waving. I am so proud of myself and lg for providing this opportunity to our twelve year old son. Knowing that his perspective of the world around him is going to change so drastically in such a positive way is something that I wish all parents and kids could experience.
lg is handling it VERY well. Much better than I had anticipated. She still thinks about nothing but where he is at a particular moment, but there is no panic or over-worrying. She seems almost calm about it. That is, in part, due to the fact that we did not do daycare for the summer and just trusted in the boy to be good and were keeping track of him while we were at work by phone. Now he is with an organized and supervised group, and I think that is helping lg a lot.
Which is very good for OUR adventure. Our two weeks of training officially starts this evening as soon as we clock out at work. We are using a framework built from different essays found at Internal Enslavement (link is to your right). lg has agreed to do a 24/7 for these two weeks. Only while we are clocked in at work will she be free to make her own decisions. Other than that, all decisions will be made by myself. She has agreed that no matter what happens or what I decide for her and us, she will adhere to it and that, even if she disagrees with me and thinks I am completely wrong, any willfulness or arguing will be punished accordingly. For my part, I agreed that I would never lose sight that this MUST be a good experience for BOTH of us, not just my libido. We also agreed that we have plenty of time and that we don’t have to do every single thing, sexually, that I want her to do this session. For this reason I gave her the opportunity to pick a few things that are on her “Almost” on the hard-limits list that she wants me to concentrate on. Some of these are testing her pain threshold with spankings, whippings and clips (yum), cum swallowing, pussy stretching and some light pee play. This way she won’t be worrying about when I’m gonna shove my dick in her ass or pull out the needles.
I also want to spend quality time with her just going to the beach, out to eat, going for a drive, etc. I am positive that with me making all decisions, we will do more of these things instead of me watching the boob tube while lg cleans all day. She does not realize how hard she is on herself and I am hoping that this two weeks will help her realize that she can make time for herself and still take care of me and the boy. A happy submissive is a good submissive, and I plan on giving her everything she needs and wants. Plus, I plan on cumming at least twenty times over the next two weeks. : )
So, life is good and adventures abound.
Oh yea…and the fireworks KICKED ASS as usual! I should have pics next month sometime and possibly a small video clip if I can find a place to store it on the ‘net.
Anyway, I will try to keep my posts up to date through the next two weeks and lg will have some writing assignments so there may actually be a few new posts on her blog as well.
Keep Living Well.
C.
He was SOOO excited. Our son is usually very reserved and, well…’Cool’. On the way to and at the airport, he was beside himself and couldn’t stop talking. We couldn’t go to the gate with him so we watched him go through security through glass. I expected him to be his usual cool self and not really pay attention to us, but I was very pleasantly surprised. He waved at us nearly the whole time, aggravating the security workers. The smile on his face never left once and even when he got through security and could barely see us from the other side, he still was waving. I am so proud of myself and lg for providing this opportunity to our twelve year old son. Knowing that his perspective of the world around him is going to change so drastically in such a positive way is something that I wish all parents and kids could experience.
lg is handling it VERY well. Much better than I had anticipated. She still thinks about nothing but where he is at a particular moment, but there is no panic or over-worrying. She seems almost calm about it. That is, in part, due to the fact that we did not do daycare for the summer and just trusted in the boy to be good and were keeping track of him while we were at work by phone. Now he is with an organized and supervised group, and I think that is helping lg a lot.
Which is very good for OUR adventure. Our two weeks of training officially starts this evening as soon as we clock out at work. We are using a framework built from different essays found at Internal Enslavement (link is to your right). lg has agreed to do a 24/7 for these two weeks. Only while we are clocked in at work will she be free to make her own decisions. Other than that, all decisions will be made by myself. She has agreed that no matter what happens or what I decide for her and us, she will adhere to it and that, even if she disagrees with me and thinks I am completely wrong, any willfulness or arguing will be punished accordingly. For my part, I agreed that I would never lose sight that this MUST be a good experience for BOTH of us, not just my libido. We also agreed that we have plenty of time and that we don’t have to do every single thing, sexually, that I want her to do this session. For this reason I gave her the opportunity to pick a few things that are on her “Almost” on the hard-limits list that she wants me to concentrate on. Some of these are testing her pain threshold with spankings, whippings and clips (yum), cum swallowing, pussy stretching and some light pee play. This way she won’t be worrying about when I’m gonna shove my dick in her ass or pull out the needles.
I also want to spend quality time with her just going to the beach, out to eat, going for a drive, etc. I am positive that with me making all decisions, we will do more of these things instead of me watching the boob tube while lg cleans all day. She does not realize how hard she is on herself and I am hoping that this two weeks will help her realize that she can make time for herself and still take care of me and the boy. A happy submissive is a good submissive, and I plan on giving her everything she needs and wants. Plus, I plan on cumming at least twenty times over the next two weeks. : )
So, life is good and adventures abound.
Oh yea…and the fireworks KICKED ASS as usual! I should have pics next month sometime and possibly a small video clip if I can find a place to store it on the ‘net.
Anyway, I will try to keep my posts up to date through the next two weeks and lg will have some writing assignments so there may actually be a few new posts on her blog as well.
Keep Living Well.
C.
posted by Blogger at 12:51 PM
1 Comments:
Best of luck to you and lg on the upcoming weeks! Remember not to nitpick the "arrangement" to death, but to enjoy yourselves. Problems arise when couples try to force themselves into a square peg. Have fun!
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