Update
Well, a lot has been going on in the last several weeks. lg and I are into our new house. It is very nice to have all the room and privacy that it provides. It is not a great place; there are many things wrong with it (i.e. a burner on the stove doesn’t work, holes in screens, canary yellow kitchen cabinets – blegh!, etc.). But its ok. We will only be here for a year and it was cheap so we can get our credit taken care of and can buy a house next time.
There has been very little D/s between lg and I lately. We are both just too busy and too tired to do any of the fun stuff. Her domestic service is right on target…but that is pretty easy for her. Making sure that what she is doing is what I want her doing has been a struggle though. lg has not been very submissive to me for weeks now. She has been extremely busy, but I must admit that I miss the total submission that we were getting to before all this other ‘life’ stuff started happening. It is also my fault for not pressing the subject.
Also, there is the fact that lg’s period is over two weeks late. No…I don’t think she is pregnant. We have done three separate tests on three different days, the latest when she was almost two weeks late, and ALL came out negative (I would say “phew!” but I don’t want to jinx it). Her period has been very irregular for half a year or more now, but to just skip a period is very disturbing to me. She has a doctor appointment on Oct. 3rd, so we are both reserving judgment until then.
So with all the worries and stress and hectic life, we are a little out of whack with each other. It doesn’t seem hard for that to happen with this lifestyle…not for us, anyway.
I am planning a light session this weekend to help her get back into the flow again. It will be light because I don’t want to do anything major until we find out what is going on from the doctor, and lg doesn’t want any tell-tale marks on her when she goes.
And finally, we should have the ‘net at home within the next two weeks. It will only be dial-up, but its better than nothing. And then we can BOTH start posting regularly…and catch up on everyone else’s blogs. There are several pics that lg wants posted as soon as we get up and running.
Overall, life is good. Lg and I are treating other with kid gloves because I think we both want this D/s thing to work, but are afraid of making a mistake with all the other stuff going on. My kid gloves will come off this weekend…or maybe I’ll only take off one of them. : )
If I don’t see lg bowing before me soon, I will most definitely lose my mind.
C.
There has been very little D/s between lg and I lately. We are both just too busy and too tired to do any of the fun stuff. Her domestic service is right on target…but that is pretty easy for her. Making sure that what she is doing is what I want her doing has been a struggle though. lg has not been very submissive to me for weeks now. She has been extremely busy, but I must admit that I miss the total submission that we were getting to before all this other ‘life’ stuff started happening. It is also my fault for not pressing the subject.
Also, there is the fact that lg’s period is over two weeks late. No…I don’t think she is pregnant. We have done three separate tests on three different days, the latest when she was almost two weeks late, and ALL came out negative (I would say “phew!” but I don’t want to jinx it). Her period has been very irregular for half a year or more now, but to just skip a period is very disturbing to me. She has a doctor appointment on Oct. 3rd, so we are both reserving judgment until then.
So with all the worries and stress and hectic life, we are a little out of whack with each other. It doesn’t seem hard for that to happen with this lifestyle…not for us, anyway.
I am planning a light session this weekend to help her get back into the flow again. It will be light because I don’t want to do anything major until we find out what is going on from the doctor, and lg doesn’t want any tell-tale marks on her when she goes.
And finally, we should have the ‘net at home within the next two weeks. It will only be dial-up, but its better than nothing. And then we can BOTH start posting regularly…and catch up on everyone else’s blogs. There are several pics that lg wants posted as soon as we get up and running.
Overall, life is good. Lg and I are treating other with kid gloves because I think we both want this D/s thing to work, but are afraid of making a mistake with all the other stuff going on. My kid gloves will come off this weekend…or maybe I’ll only take off one of them. : )
If I don’t see lg bowing before me soon, I will most definitely lose my mind.
C.
posted by Blogger at 11:24 AM
4 Comments:
Happy that everything is going fine... and don't worry about D/s going in and out... Here, it happens all the time...lololol... My moods, His moods, day to day life, kids, cats... At some moment, it is like a conspiracy against D/s...;-)) but, I think that once it is there, it is always back... ;-)
Leave it to a Liberal to find excuses as to why a busy or hectic life interferes too much to get the hard work done...hehe.
Thanks, Sea.
We are happy and thats all that matters...
And little beth???
At least you knew to capitalize Liberal...
; )
Yeah, we run in cycles too. Real life can so easily get in the way.
Glad the move went well!
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